If you are already at that age… remember the most intense, the most passionate sex of your life… Why did it feel that great?
Whatever you might think, I bet it was not that good because you were withdrawn, because you refused to feel everything. For openness is a key to intense sex. And from now on sex stands for your whole life. Every moment is like sex. You are either more or less ready to feel everything, to give everything.
Then why is openness so difficult? Certainly not because being open is unnatural. Quite the contrary. But we get used to being closed very quickly. For to be open means also to be vulnerable. Thus we run. And we do not stop until we realise we run away from life itself.
Only keep reading if you do not want to run any more, if you want to embrace your life wholeheartedly, like a newborn child.